In episode 19 of the Quiet the Clock, Sheila Richman, EVP, Publicity at Atlantic Records, shares her personal journey of making the choice to become a single mother.
She openly talks about the obstacles she encountered, which included the decision-making process between IVF and IUI, the emotional challenges, and the potential regrets had she not pursued motherhood.
She also discusses how she navigated these hurdles while being on her own.
In the face of uncertainties and worries surrounding single parenthood, Sheila reflects on the emotional strain she experienced before ultimately committing to the path of having a child.
Join Sheila and Beth as they inspire and motivate others to explore and embrace their choices when pursuing an unconventional route to building a family.
Quotes:
00:22:27 “I don’t regret if I never get married…. But not trying to be a mom would have been a regret for me.” Sheila
00:23:23 – “There are many different paths. And, you know, I my path is different. And it’s sometimes scary to be the only parent. I’m like, it all falls on me.” Sheila
00:25:52, “we shouldn’t give up on whatever our dreams are just because it doesn’t look like what we think it’s supposed to.” – Sheila
Key Points:
Navigating through uncertainty [00:00:24] Discussion about navigating through the uncertainty of dating, motherhood, and egg freezing, and the pressure of limited time.
Connecting with Sheila [00:02:00] Introduction of Sheila as a guest and her role as the head of publicity for Atlantic Records.
Starting the journey to motherhood [00:08:33] Sheila’s decision to pursue motherhood after a conversation with her boss, who encouraged her to “shit or get off the pot.”
The pressure of dating and finding a potential father [00:11:10] Discussion about the pressure of dating and the impact it has on the search for a potential father.
The narratives and doubts surrounding egg freezing [00:12:29] Exploration of the doubts and concerns about egg freezing, including financial considerations and societal expectations.
The release of the traditional family picture [00:15:33] Sheila’s journey towards accepting and embracing a non-traditional family structure, and finding joy in her own unique situation.
The decision to have a child [00:20:36] Discussion about Sheila’s decision to try to have a child and the emotional struggles involved.
The importance of support and community [00:21:33] Exploration of the role of age and wisdom in setting boundaries and advocating for oneself in the medical field.
Encouraging each other and not giving up on dreams [00:24:08] Sheila’’s contentment with her decision to become a single parent and the importance of not giving up on dreams, even if they don’t align with societal expectations.
Get professional counseling from Beth and her team:
Visit NYC Therapeutic Wellness here